Why are you single

Pulled from the archives.

A response to the BS question:
Why are you single?

Do you see my cards? I have a highly stacked deck. I’m a woman who is about hers. I keep my standards high for a reason, but they are not impossible. If you want me, then show me what you can bring to the table. The physical aspect is always appealing, but I need more at the end of the day. I’m not referring to things of monetary value. Materialism does not impress me.
If you want me: ENTICE ME! Make me WET from mental stimulation. I crave intellectual conversations. Teach me. Challenge me . Intrigue me with your tongue by provoking my thoughts and my curiosity about you will follow. Meet me on a level where we can vibe about anything, no matter how simple or intense.
If you want me, then make me want you. Tantalize me. If you can excite me mentally and emotionally, then I’ll be wide open to you physically. I am not turned on by shallowness. I’m drawn to confidence without the arrogance. Charm me with sophistication, but be humble in your approach. Down to Earth. Real enough for us to just be random together.
If you want me, then show me that you consider others before yourself. Have Integrity. Morals. Manners and Respect.
If you want me, then be those ears when I need someone who will listen. Allow me to feel comfortable enough with you that I would let my vulnerability show. Be that shoulder when I need your support.
If you want me, then let me hold you up when you are down without feelings of insecurity. Be mature enough to not feel like less than a man if I can take care of you.
If you want me, then come correct. Be mature. Be a man. Spare me the games and BS. Be smart enough to know that I will see right through it and that I damn sure won’t entertain it. Respect me and keep it real. Complement me. Only I can complete me.
If you want me, then know that I value my self worth and I am not about compromising it or settling.

Does this seem too demanding? It’s more simple than you think..
If this intimidates or aggravates you, then good. Please, step back. You’re clearly blocking the ones who are on this level.