Guys can be such assholes

So, I went to Coopers last night and had food and drinks with the girls. They were telling me about the pole dancing class that Suzzie and Julie missed. We agreed to schedule it again so we can all go. Suzzie was telling us about Mr. Chocolate and we just spoke about it again. I swear she is like my new cosmic twin. As I mentioned previously , they've been spending a lot of time together. Like A LOT. Since September . She likes him. She thinks he likes her. Julie thinks he's just content with what he's getting right now which is friendship with no benefits and it's almost like they're a couple but they aren't. Anyway, after she asks him what's going on between them and has he thought about where they are heading or not, he basically tells Suzzie that he isn't physically attracted to her. Well not in so many words but that was the point -although she is his ideal match according to him. I'm convinced that he's gay because even I'm attracted to her and I'm more so straight. So what's his deal ? Matter of fact- what's the deal with guys playing games? After all of this time he hasn't at last grown to be attracted to her? I mean you can not be attracted to someone when you first meet them but after spending a substantial amount of time with them a strong emotional bond can lead to attraction. Trust me- that's how I explain a few of my exes. Plus, she's beautiful inside and out. So what's his issue? I told her to move on a month ago. Any guy who has to take four months to make a move into the next direction- be it a date or a kiss- is not really into you. He had some complicated excuse instead of just being upfront. Reminded me so much of Derwin. Why do some people choose to make dating so complicated as if it's not hard enough? I lose interest quickly when you show me that you're there but not really doing anything about it . Who's got time to sit around while waiting for a guy to make up his mind on whether he wants to date you? Please! I'm actually upset for her because I can not stand it when guys think that they have to control how things pan out. It's very annoying and just kills the mood. Some men actually think that we should just sit and wait for them to figure things out or wait until they have time for us. Ha! There is always someone waiting to take your spot. Trust me! She said he admitted to over analyzing everything. Well good. I'm over analyzing what's wrong with him and others. This ship has sailed in so many ways. I am over him for her. It's about time to serve some " Over you" papers. Yes, it's really about that time .