Monday, August 17, 2009

New ventures, new plans, new people

A sistah is ready to unwind. I am making some solid changes in my personal and social life. I'm also going to take advantage of what's left of summer starting with having dinner with the girl's at Cooper's tonight, if they are available.

First, I'll start with a nap.

I've decided to hit the gym this week. Long overdue.

I am joining V's bookclub and I've invited my old classmate Tjames. She coincidentally asked me if I wanted to start a book club and I thought about it, but I decided it will be too much work on my end. So, I suggested that we join up with V and take it from there. TJ wants to meet new people. She says she is tired of being single (one year( and wants to meet someone new and exciting. She informed me that she was bi. I laughed and told her that I already knew.

I think I will not drink for a month but I am thinking of leaving it at beer. I don't consume hard liqour. I may limit myself to a glass of wine per weekend.We'll see..

I'm also going to join another social club in addition to my book club. I feel like I am in haze right now. My summe is passing by quickly. I need to get out of the routine before my yesr passes by completely. I'll raid moxy and the city and see what I find.

I am re-accessing my friendship circle. There isn't too much work to do on that end. I just have little time for some people.

I have to map out my five-year plan, three-year plan, two-year plan and a one year plan. Maybe I should just make a timeline. We'll see.

Now, I want to do something different but I a not sure what it is yet.

As for dating, Vincent insists that we are still together even though I told him I want to be by myself. He doesn't do it in a psychotic way. It's more of a " Trey Wiggs" move. He, too, couldn't balance his time but doesn't want to give up. I am not one to settle in any event. Vincent has it together on the major levels , but I am over compromising. It is good to know that he isn't going anywhere so I have someone to turn to if I need it, but for now I'll treat him like a dear friend and he'll have to deal. Speaking of, I need to confirm that he'll drive me to get my paycheck next week.
I miss Joan.
I just convinced Melanie to join the book club. She infomed me that Joan will be upset since she has been trying to get us to do this for a min. I may just call and let her know so I can hear her tak in a pitch that only dogs can hear. Can't wait to visit her.

Lastly, glad I'll be done with work soon. I love those kids, really. I even see myself being a great mother, but housing is so unorganized when it comes to relaying vital info.

I need to get back into my writing full-time. It feels good to jot my thoughts down.

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