Why?

On my way out of the Pc lab I ran into Mr. Clean. He's the cute Trinidadian Custodian at the school. He and I have been having short chats about all sorts of things whenever we run into one another.Tonight, we ended up talking for about an hour and a half. We have a lot in common. I was suprised to learn how our views on life, ambition and spending- lol- we're quite similar. He has his own place, a two bedroom and works two jobs, school and construction. He's very humble and smart. I couldn't believe we talked for so long and about so much. Then of course the other shoe dropped. He's 34. Fine. He does well for himself and works hard. Ah! But he has four kids. He says he takes care of them all and I believe him. He's made his bed and now pays for it. Literally. He said the next child he has has to be with the one he makes his wife. He comes across as an upstanding guy, but after Mr. West, I don't deal with men with children anymore. As we began to head out, Mr. Clean asked me when he'll get my number, again. He and I have been chatting randomly since last semester. I told him in due time. I can see him and I being friends. I like his "spirit". He says he can tell that I'm a strong woman and he'll wait for the number. He said he prefers a challenge. I said good. I'm a tough nut to crack. He said if I'd give in so easily he'd probably run and besides a woman should never have to chase a man, he should show his interest and make his move.He's saying this with an intense, seductive gaze, lol. I said good, I'm glad you know. You know I agreed. I can smell bs a mile away but he's genuine. FOur kids?! Why?!Apparently he says I walk with this look . I asked if it was a -get out my way- look. He said it's a look that says I'm about my business. And that's cause I am. Anyway, he seems like a decent fellow, but I can't rock with the four kids. Sigh. I keep meeting men lately. None of which fit my ideal. I want someone with his humility and ambition, humor and good looks, but no kids or drama! Show me a man on his game, with no kids or drama, smart, good looking, sensitive, ambitious, sophisticated, no bullshit games, REAL. Why do I keep meeting these thirty something olds or baby daddy's? Nothing makes me run faster than a man with a child cause then I know your ass is fertile for sure and I am not fitting to have no one's mini--me any time soon. Sigh! Lord, send me someone normal. Please. (If I really cared right now)