A lovely evening

I brought out the leather jacket today. The black one..... Not the long one... The short one.. It was that kind of day. Feeling very fabulous and professional in my gray slacks, black Express pinstriped shirt and the heels , of course. Headphones in my ear blasting Ms Independent and Chasing Pavement. I ran late to class today but it was excused since I'm normally on time. We had presentations for the informative Speech. Anna did her speech but I came when she was being critiqued. I totally forgot she was first. I would have tried to get there on time and support her. Three other students went and one showed how to garnish drinks with a pineapple -he's a bartender. My comment was "Good speech..and where do you work and can I have a drink on the house? Very good speech." Wink. lol. The other one was how to decorate a cake. The cake was yum. I have to remember to get mine ready. I'm doing how to make fishcakes.

Anyway, after class that tall,handsome and sophisticated guy that I mentioned prior came in and sat down for the next class. He was early today. I'll call him Stephen or Bradley. We made eye contact as we always do but that's it. No smile, no hi's . Just awkward stares. Anna and I left class and I mentioned him to her and she went back to peek. She finally saw he wasn't a figment of my imagination. We took the elevator downstairs and then came back up when I realized I didn't remember which day my speech was due. We went back to our class but the Prof was gone. Stephen-Bradley was still sitting there but I didn't notice him. According to Anna, he was staring at me as I turned around to leave. We got into this whole convo about why guys do things like that. Like why not just say hi? Like I see it as pointless for me to like him from afar because it would be superficial. I know nothing about him. But here we make eye contact and we don't smile we just look-like we're leery of each other. The least he could do is say hi. I know I wont. Anna asked me why do guys do that. She told me about this guy she encountered over the weekend and how they flirted and all and he was catering to her(he was her waiter but that's not the point) and he didn't make a move. I know guys can get shy or just like to play the game but I mean really.

Anyway, I decided to go to Cooper's after class and meet Julie and Suzzie for drinks and dinner. Suzzie wasn't there yet, but Julie's BFF was there with his two male friends. I walked into a convo about love, traditions , marriage, sex..etc and it went on for the entire time. The guys talked about when a dude invites a girl to his place, when do you know if you're going to sleep together. 10 mins, 10 seconds.. The set up is: He'll invite you over for dinner around 8, cook it while you are there so you see he did it, you'll have dinner, good convo, open the wine and enjoy yourselves. By now it's 9-9 30.Here's the deciding factor- He'll ask you if you want to watch a movie- specifically a black romance- Love Jones or Brown Sugar, if you say yes, then he knows you're spending the night. Movie wont be over until 11. MOre wine. Kisses. The thing that will seal the deal is somehow kissing that spot that will drive us weak.Oh and any movie with a tender or raw sex scene, like belly, will make us weak. The art of the G. They say it's all about the G. Strategy. When we come over and undress and have matching undergarments-G. push up bras-G. Then they say by then we both know the deal and it's about to be on. Then we talked about head and that being the wild card that leads a woman to say yes (if done right). It ended in my slack comment which took the guys aback as they jumped from the table in amazement- in a funny way. I told them my little creative trick and they called it the JOKER card.